Please check out the advice from several featured San Diego Wedding Planners about how to avoid drama on your wedding day. Click through here to see my advice amongst other words of wisdom from fellow wedding coordinators. I believe it's always best to communicate. Even though it's your wedding day, keep in mind that it's also a special day for parents as well and they want to help as much as they can. Let your wedding coordinator know about certain family dynamics and you can have them be a facilitator for discussions too.